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    The culture shift is stark sometimes when you watch old stuff.

    On the other hand, don’t let them turn that into an excuse. You know what dealt with trans rights in a pretty honest, raw, and understanding way, in the mid 1980s? Fucking Hill Street Blues. One of the cops gets together with a woman, he’s happy to be with her, and then the other cops start giving him hell for it because she used to be a man. He gets disgusted and angry, goes over to her place, and she lectures him about it and sets him straight, tells him to figure out if he wants to be with her, but don’t try to turn who I am into some kind of thing I did to you, or make me feel bad about it. He sort of accepts it, because she clearly has a point, and that’s the end of the episode.

    Hill Street Blues, man.

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      Yeah, I had a pretty sheltered childhood because I remember lots of good shows with a lot less of those issues. I watched a lot of sci-fi though, which IME tends to be a bit more forward-thinking. Not super surprising if you think about it

      Doctor who had every type of queer back in the mid-late 2000s. From a trans “last human” to lesbian aliens

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        Doctor who had every type of queer back in the mid-late 2000s. From a trans “last human” to lesbian aliens

        Wait, that “bitchy trampoline” was trans? How is that even possible with so few body parts left?

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      One of Al Pacino’s best movies, Dog Day Afternoon, is still a very relevant movie to this day and was released in 1975.

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    Metrosexual 2033, Metrosexual Last Light, and Metrosexual Exodus

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    Asian dude who went to high school in the 90s.

    We were constantly called metro or straight up gay because we dressed like BTS before BTS was born.

    But they called us that in a hateful way.

    Ya 90s high school sucked for minorities.

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    Me in the 2000s: No lotion, no conditioner, no umbrella, no scarf. Just ashy skin, nasty hair, and choking on the rain and cold.

    Not because I was afraid of being made fun of, but because I was stupid and gross.

    You young GenZ homies knowing how to groom are the real champs.

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    When I was growing up “f!!!ot” wasn’t even seen as a cuss word, it was just a burn you called your friends all the time. We didn’t really think about it until I was 16 and one of our friends came out as gay. My whole friend group kind of had it click at the same time that 1. We didn’t care that he was gay and 2. It was probably pretty fucking rude to call everything we didn’t like “g!y” and call eachother “f!g” as an insult. I think that realization happened for a lot of people who had gay friends in my generation, and it’s part of what helped lead to the level of acceptance and support the LGBT community has now.

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    Before we had been introduced, my wife’s BFF told her I might be gay because I like opera.

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    Wait, shorts were gay? Does that include cargo shorts? Cuz there were a lot of cargo shorts at the time.

    Source: used to wear cargo shorts back then. I still do, but I used to too.

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        It was only if they fell above the knees that made you gay. If they fell below the knee or were basketball shorts, you were fine.

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        Well the term originated in Britain where they weren’t that popular at the time, and like the post says it was only if you wore short too much.

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    Fun fact: the term was literally invented by the British tabloid press to explain how (football superstar and husband of Victoria “Posh Spice” Beckham) David Beckham could wear a sarong without being secretly gay.

    I wish I was making it up but that’s genuinely the origin of the term 🤦

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    Was a mid 2000s hipster wearing skinny jeans and bright colors. Non hipster girls thought I was gay. Honestly frat bros were generally more pleasant and if they thought I was gay never said anything and just handed me a beer.

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      and, how is your husband ?

      /jk

      somehow not being gay while not being gay was important while the real gays got accepted more. maybe it was a side effect of higher acceptance. kids of that time had to visibly distance themselves from stereotypical gay behaviour to appear more conformist?

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    I have a degree in musical theatre and am a member of a music oriented fraternity. The fraternity was called “the gay” fraternity by the typical frat bro organizations within the last decade. Its not just relegated to the early part of the 2000s.

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      The gay theatre kid has been a stereotype forever, but they literally had to invent a word to describe guys who showered and wore something that wasn’t a T-shirt because that was enough for even women to think you were gay. The homophobia was so bad back then that you could possibly lose your job if people thought you were gay because you used hair gel and dressed well.

      The 90s and 2000s were something else.

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    People who think 2000s was homophobic would not have survived high school in the 80s lol. No like literally they would kill you.

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    that’s two words for the same thing…depending on which european country it is.

    I didn’t even look at the post