• wilberfan
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    38 months ago

    I have a friend with FIVE CATS. I worry about her sometimes… Paula Poundstone has…12? 13? 14? I worry about her, too.

  • @Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee
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    138 months ago

    Cats are independent and dogs are dependent. That’s why I like cats better. I also don’t want to deal with the death of a dog that I’d probably consider my best friend. No thanks.

  • @confluence@lemmy.world
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    228 months ago

    I’ve had cats and dogs, and in my sample, cats have been better at navigating boundaries. Also, the beans. Also, the everything.

  • ThyTTY
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    328 months ago

    Because I can actually observe my adopted cat loving me more with every passing month. We’re learning each other, he communicates with me and gets closer and closer. For the first year he didn’t even think about cuddling but now he’s on my laps everyday. It’s really nice to feel him liking me more and more so I like him back as well. It’s a very positive circle of affection.

  • livus
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    8 months ago

    My family had cats when I was a baby. The cats put a lot of time into imprinting me to give them baby food, heat etc (babies are resource rich from a cat point of view).

    I always obey commands from cats.

  • @terminhell@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    258 months ago

    I’ve had both over my life. Both have pros and cons.

    As others have said, cats overall require less attention; both in interaction and maintenance. Our cats are really good about keeping house bugs to a minimum with their natural hunter instincts. Flies,moths and other critters don’t last long. Also litter boxes are something I wish dogs could figure out lol.

    Dogs are more social, so they’ll need more from you. They need frequent outside time to run and exercise/bathroom. Most dogs don’t care about catching bugs and critters like cats. However, if treated right, will defend the house to the death from intruders.

    In my current situation, cats are better. If I had a much bigger, we’ll fenced yard, I’d love to have a dog again.

    • @SecretPancake@feddit.de
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      138 months ago

      You can easily train a dog to use litter boxes. There are actually indoor grass mats you can buy. It’s mostly a way to deal with very old dogs who have trouble keeping it in.

      But please don’t do that with young and healthy dogs. They need outside time. If you don’t want to do that, just don’t get a dog.

    • A Cool DudeOP
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      28 months ago

      I have had several cats in irl and I still cannot answer the question 🤷🏽‍♂️

      • @rosymind@leminal.space
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        38 months ago

        Why would you keep getting cats if you don’t like them? Or do you mean you do like them but you don’t understand why you like them?

        • A Cool DudeOP
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          18 months ago

          You misunderstood me. It is not that I don’t like them. It is that I don’t like them as insanely much as some people seem to like them. To me they are okay. However, for some people they are life.

          • @rosymind@leminal.space
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            28 months ago

            I see! As a person who is a cat person (and not a dog person) I get it. To me dogs fall under the “cute but not for me” category.

            One of my cats lightly pats my eyelid when she wants me to wake up. When she wants kisses, she’ll pat my lips. If I talk to her, she meows back. She has different facial expressions, tail twitches and other body language to communicate with me. I pay attention to her, and she pays attention to me. If I’m anxious, she rubs up against me to give me love

            Cats respond to their owners. You have to first learn their language before you can understand them. If they see that you can’t understand them, they will treat you accordingly

            • A Cool DudeOP
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              28 months ago

              The cats that I owned only wanted food and to go outside to fuck with other cats.

              • @rosymind@leminal.space
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                28 months ago

                Interesting. All of my cats have had their own unique personalities. I did have one that was like the one you mentioned above, but he didn’t live long. Almost all of my cats have been indoors only for that reason

    • CALIGVLA
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      178 months ago

      What the hell does toxoplasmosis have to do with liking cats?

      • Otter
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        198 months ago

        It inhibits the fear response in rodents, so they are more likely to cuddle up with cats

        The joke being that humans are infected too

        In rodents, T. gondii alters behavior in ways that increase the rodents’ chances of being preyed upon by felids. Support for this “manipulation hypothesis” stems from studies showing that T. gondii-infected rats have a decreased aversion to cat urine while infection in mice lowers general anxiety, increases explorative behaviors and increases a loss of aversion to predators in general. Because cats are one of the only hosts within which T. gondii can sexually reproduce, such behavioral manipulations are thought to be evolutionary adaptations that increase the parasite’s reproductive success since rodents that do not avoid cat habitations will more likely become cat prey

    • @currawong@lemmy.ml
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      138 months ago

      On the whole, there was little evidence that T. gondii was related to increased risk of psychiatric disorder, poor impulse control, personality aberrations, or neurocognitive impairment.

    • VM_Abrantes
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      68 months ago

      lmao imagine having an affinity towards felines because a parasite told you to

  • @Weirdfish@lemmy.world
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    518 months ago

    My cats are the perfect balance of affection, entertainment, and low maintenance.

    Dogs are great, but I can leave my cats alone for a long weekend and when I get home, the house is just as I left it.