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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • webcams demand you to be presentable and make your space presentable

    No they don’t. That’s an artifical societal demand. Interacting in public with anyone “heightens the need” to be presentable, but there’s no one forcing you to dress up nice or put on makeup.

    IMO women need to take back the idea that we’re expected to slather on makeup before we’re “presentable”. I prefer to think of myself as attractive, and makeup might enhance that for special occasions, but au naturel is my default for day to day, including webcams.








  • I could never find 1 spot in school that was consistantly safe for me to retreat to for any period of time. Instead I had multiple spots all over where I’d retreat to for short time frames. If one wasn’t available, I could move on to the next one without getting too upset.

    Friend, I’m sending you hugs, and if you’re open to it I’d strongly recommend building meditation skills. Therapy is a must if you want to understand why you feel this way, but meditation can help a lot in the meantime. I wish you the best, and hope you find somewhere safe to breathe today ❤️