Sas [she/her]

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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • Difficult one. So if she suddenly acted different from one day to the other there might’ve been an information gained. And from the way you described it she’s unsure what to do about this. She might’ve realised you like her that way or she might’ve found feelings for you and doesn’t quite know how to handle this information. She likes you as a friend but might be unsure about her sexuality or she likes you as a friend and is unsure what to do about your crush.

    Honestly I don’t feel qualified to give advice on the matter but do you know if she even is sapphic?


  • Yeah it’s tough, especially since my possible dating pool is extremely small. But also i like my workplace so it’s a tough decision. Especially since one of her worries specifically was getting to keep her job. Luckily she’s not in my team and we rarely have professional contact. Just the talking in office if we end up in the same one or at the lunch table.

    I think I’m gonna invite her to a board game evening with a bunch of others some time and see how it goes. Create opportunities for her to make her intent clear and also talk things through if needed.












  • It is no one’s business yet people make it their business. If OP gets fired because they get seen giving their partner a kiss or a neighbour outs them then, suddenly their identity is an issue at work. Just because OP has not been outed involuntarily yet, doesn’t mean it won’t affect them in the future. And if OP, for fear of getting fired, is keeping their identity a secret, it is actively affecting them. If a gay dude says to their co-worker “my partner made that cake” instead of “my boyfriend made that cake” because mentioning a boyfriend is a risk to their work it is affecting them.









  • Ok to make some thing clear because you seem to misunderstand a lot of things. I’m not from the US, I vote greens in my country and despise the liberals of your and my country. When i put quotes around against genocide I do so because as I explain in the whole thing it’s in effect not against genocide as it’s not stopping it plus adding a genocide in your own population. I don’t put the quotes around genocide without the word against because a genocide it is. You are so caught up in your whole spiel that you’ve built a boogeyman you assume me to be without actually reading the text which is already clear when you take my introductory sentence and complain that I’ve not provided the logic before the introduction. When my logic sends like standard laser evil tropes then that’s because it is. I detailed the logic without buzzwords because so many people stop thinking about the why the moment they hear them. And you don’t need more than lesser evil because lesser evil is all you have in your shithole of an electory system. You have no option to actually bring a 3rd party into power. Maybe I’ll get to your other points when I’m actually awake and not lying in bed with a fever but probably not