

I think you deserve better, and spending time on this person who clearly does not care about you or have your best interests at heart is a waste of your time. it may be best to put some distance between you two, I don’t see how giving them opportunity to hurt you more will help.
I’m terribly sorry that this person does not care about you, I hope you can spend your time and efforts on somebody who has your best interests at heart. everybody deserves love, and that includes you.
consent is a two way street, you both need to consent, if you say no more, then that should be the end of it. she cant force you to stay with her this way, and its a common abuse tactic to manipulate people.