1994 is not that long ago,
It’s 31 years ago. The people who were of voting age at that time are 49 or older now. The average age in Norway is 41. The average Norwegian isn’t old enough to have voted on the EU even once, much less twice.
and the politicians still entered EU regardless.
They did not. We are in the EEC and Schengen, but not in the EU.
Your anecdote is just that. The Finns and Swedes had a sudden change of heart about NATO after Putin invaded. Norwegians might similarly have a change of heart about NATO and the EU if NATO starts rotting at the head.
I tend to agree; I think the decision to not be able to vote was a bad one.
Norway is a sparsely populated and poorly defended country with a lot of natural resources and a long, often strategic, coastline. We’re better off being allied to countries that share our ideals, in a union that has actually brought peace to the continent, than being gobbled up by some other superpower that believes in one or another variant of ethnic supremacy.
NATO is to a large degree “USA with friends”. An EU defence is looking more and more needed.