• u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org)@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    My dad really changed since joining TikTok. Now that’s all he talks about. Come look at this, come look at this,…
    “But I am busy.”
    “Oh, come on, it’s short.”
    “Look. See? People love Putin.”

    For fucks sake… Then he proceeds to loudly curse when he gets yet another account banned for posting some trash.
    When I try to talk to him, I am met with “Wait, I just have to finish this video.” then later he complains I don’t talk with him. ¿?

    I mean, it’s not just TikTok alone, he uses Facebook, TikTok and VKontakte, but I feel like that had the biggest influence.

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      11 months ago

      start behind the scene subscribing to anti-putin posts and channels and see he changing opinion lol

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        11 months ago

        100%. This actually works. Most boomers are not technologically late enough to track subscriptions and such.

        There was a YouTube video not a documentary (similar to The Brainwashing of My Dad) where their father went down the rabbithole, but they started subscribing them to better news sources, and eventually to left-leaning news sources, and he did a whole 180°.

        Fear is like a drug. It’s addictive, and rightwing media sources have cracked the formula on how to get people addicted to it, and it can happen to ANYONE. The uneducated to the well-educated. The only thing that makes you immune to it is critical thinking and empathy - which is why I feel that their next war is on education and masculinity. They are literally trying to perfect the addiction so you can never leave it.

        This is part of the reason why education is so insanely important.

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        11 months ago

        Ask not what you could do for the algorithm. Ask what the algorithm can do for you.

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    11 months ago

    I hate to break it to you my not-so-tech-savvy friend, but boomers on tiktok is not going to destroy tiktok like it did Facebook. The algo will basically only show their content to other boomers and young people will largely be unaware of it.

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      11 months ago

      You do know kids can find out grandma is on tiktok other ways than just the site itself? Touch grass, remember there’s a world outside

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        11 months ago

        lol. I can’t tell if you just don’t know any young people or if it’s that you don’t know the difference between a social network and a short term video app. (Or you’re just mad cause tiktok = bad.)

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      11 months ago

      The same was true of Facebook my not-so-socially-savvy friend. Kids will stop using it once they realise grandma is on there because it is no longer cool.

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        11 months ago

        Again, Facebook and TikTok operate differently. One is a social network, the other is a short form video platform. A social network is inherently dependent on its users. Did YouTube die when it became widely adopted??

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          11 months ago

          I don’t know if YouTube died per se, but it certainly became enshittified.

          Heaps of content creators sold out to advertising interests and degraded their own platform. Not that I blame them really, money always talks

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            11 months ago

            And new creators take their place, if you’re only seeing shit on YouTube it’s because you’re only subscribed to shit.

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    11 months ago

    once the boomers get there and start liking it, that’s when you know it’s about to reach peak and crash hard. my parents are talking about reddit. case in point.

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      11 months ago

      Yep, it still exists. Like a marionetted corpse waltzing around selling garage sale items and finding lost dogs.

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    11 months ago

    The thing you kids don’t understand about entering middle age is yes you’ll see thy thing you hated because kids use it die but kids don’t stop- there will be something that replaces it which will be even more alien and distressing for you