

I want to be spicy and strong, not just like a girl who starts drama and complains like your average basic girl.
It’s genuinely okay to be basic. There’s nothing wrong with it. Don’t try and force yourself to be different when it’s not authentic.
Edit: it also sounds like you may have some internalized misogyny, given how you view “average basic girls”.
Then why would she say “There was no father. I carried him, I gave birth to him, I raised him. I can’t explain what happened.” Rather than “His father left (or died) before he was born”, or “His father was a spacer passing through and I never saw him again”, or something like that.
If you take the new EU novels as canon, you could argue that Anakin’s father was Darth Plagueis, who had been experimenting with creating life through the Force around the time of Anakin’s conception.