It all comes back to how bs and constructed sexual categories always were. Yes I mainly like girls and fem people and think they’re just way better to be with than men, but why write off every guy on earth when I can just live life free to love? I’m fine sitting in a box bc it has pretty colors, but my box only matters when it suits me. The boxes never were innate, and never will be. So long as people get that I like women, they don’t need to worry about me excluding men.

That said, saying these flexible girls are straight is like saying a person with my skin color and ethnicity is white. The category of “straight” functions in a similar way that is defined by historically powerful exclusionary norms. If you’re not only ever into “the correct” people, you’re a filthy degenerate failure who must kill off that part of yourself to be “straight.” Girls who fuck girls cannot fit into that social order unless they deny that part of themselves. It’s not enough to mostly like men, you need to conform