I find most of the boss battles unsatisfyingly hard, but I actually think it’s a little bit more “chill” than Stardew, for just hanging out an growing/building stuff. I don’t have to worry about birthdays or 2am passing out. But, I guess you do have to fortify against goblin/pirate invasions after a while.

I agree the Terraria doesn’t have a hook for the player, really. You have to explore to find out what there is at all. Stardew does at least introduce you to the main activities, while still rewarding exploration.

I have more time in Stardew, and have never beaten Terraria. But, I haven’t played the most recent versions of either.