• gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 days ago

    I don’t know anyone irl as affected as me so I mainly just want validation I’m not alone and there’s a path forward.

    you can have that validation from me. spontaneous panic attacks or anxiety attacks can happen in the face of extreme danger, even if that danger would only be imaginary. in this case, it might be real, though, depending on your situation.

    I assume you live in the US, since you didn’t say.

    What’s important is that you make a long-term plan (“where do you see yourself in 30 years”) that’s as realistic as possible and also at least acceptable. Every time the panic attacks start just focus on that vision (and on the path to get there). That will calm you down and give you a clearer mind. However, it is utterly important that you make such a plan. Without such a plan, i am deeply convinced people cannot live healthy, happy lives.