You are, saying that you think people are trans because they’d “go all out n women’s clothes” is indeed reinforcing gender stereotypes, and it is misgendering to say that people who don’t identify as trans are trans.

Now I’m being diagnosed with intrusive thoughts? lol

You’re right, I was too charitable. You don’t have intrusive thoughts, but straight up harmful ideas that you openly admit to and act upon, especially since you’re still going and haven’t gotten the message that what you’re doing or saying is uncool and needs to stop.